Great opportunities are worth the risk. How deeply did you learn to let go? Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. The other is mere business. I fear nothing. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings, as something separate from the rest - a kind of optical delusion of consciousness.
How we relate to it creates the future. How do you act if you have a crush on someone then? Only that we be in its presence, that we fully, consciously hand ourselves over. We are not the only experiment. Facebook makes things weird by keeping these friends continually in your peripheral vision.
When there's a big disappointment, we don't know if that's the end of the story.